Guest Blogger #1
I sent an email out to a bunch of entertainment industry people (mainstream and adult based) in my address book today, stating that I wanted to try to have a weekly ‘guest blogger’ on my blog, my whole theory being that I constantly rant about the ups and downs of porn and get so much shit for it, however I know that I just doing what everyone else had the nerve to do and the reputation to blow. So, why not allow industry people some time to do what I do and rant about whatever the hell they want?! Fuck it! Talk shit… Be anonymous if you want… I’ll take the heat from it!
I sent a number of text messages today and a couple mass emails, and it only took minutes to get numerous ‘Hell yeah, I’m in!’ responses, and only a couple hours to get my first guest blog.
Again, I’ve told people they can remain anonymous if they’d like, but I’d always put their occupation so that everyone knew where it was coming from. And I would also NEVER alter their blog in any way, shape or form. So, here it is, the first guy to sit down and let his fingers pound away at the keyboard and say whatever the hell it is that was in his head…
Completely exposed, this is retired porn director (Vouyer Media) Donnie Cabo:
“What happened to porn? The booming super duper million dollar business seems to be crumbling before all of our vary eyes, most openly admit that the possibilities of the reason being larger companies like Brazzers had to do with the creating of the infamous tube sites! Others say that its the works of religious fanatics that have finally found a way to put an end to all the smut being created… if you give away free bottled water, people dont pay for it… so…. the theory being that if porn is free no one will pay for membership sites and DVD’s and eventually there will be no money being made to keep the turn style rollin on the production end of it. Seems to be working… yes people are still working, and yes dvd’s are still being made, but just look at the big boys, such as vivid, wicked, and porn directors such as Jim Powers and big time porn stars like Mick Blue. Not more then 2 years ago I offered Mick $700 for a scene and he turned it down stating that he cannot work for less then $800! Fukin Ridiculous I thought, who the hell would not wanna fuk a hot chick for that kind of money when other people in the world are starving to death living in the streets… I dont get it…. but now I guarantee you if I call a Male porn star they will do scenes for half of their normal expected exceptional rate. Wow times have changed, porn sucks now, everyone is struggling, yes I know that some girls are still working weekly and if your one of them and reading this (save your money) times I believe are only going to get tougher and the economy is only going to get worse. Breaking Headling News in case you missed it, Donny Long Officially Retired from Porn- This seals the deal, I guess we can all pack our bags and go home- How does Christian feel about this? Who will he battle with now on the web… I dont blog, ever, and im just really bored, and Ive always had a thing for the sexy Jayden Jaymes so I thought Id share some precious time on her site her with all of you that stop by to read my wacky thoughts. As far as I go I was the guy that never did porn for the money. I actually cared about what I was shooting and all I wanted to ever get was the best sex and realism… realism was to me, most important, too much porn was fake, scripted, planned, guess thats why its hard for me to watch porn that seems fake… like films from wicked and vivid. I was always into the more gonzo style hey whats your name lets fuk porn… and I give it up to the guys that can do the scenes without having to stick a needle in their dick. If its that tough I walk… Bad day… walk…. not walk to the bathroom and inject! crazy shit, I have seen some crazy shit in the last thirteen years. Fuk, im going to miss alot of shit and i have a lot of great memories… alot of crazy ones too, You cant be a porn director and date a porn star and not! There were some really great days and of course some really bad days, but You try to forget the bad ones and put them behind you… Now for the future, what happens to the Jim Powers and the Vivid and Wicked and Porn Stars, where will they be in ten years? Twenty years? What will happen the year that possibly AVN is no longer with us? Will everyone still gather at circle bar at the Venetian that first week of January even if there is no show? I know people that went to Vegas this year, but did not go to the show or awards but only to attend the parties, so I can definently see endless possiblities of a 20 year reunion at the circle bar in 2030! We all know people that did not make it to the end of the year, unfortunately, that would have been at AVN, who knows maybe Michael Jackson would have shown up with Brittany Murphy! Not very probable but yet unfortunate. Life is short and your only guaranteed 2 things in life, and porn is not one of them. So I will leave you all with a question to ask yourselves… What has porn done for you? I will answer this question for you all from my perspective. . . for me porn has gotten me off like a bizzilion times, it has made me notice and appreciate a good manicure on a woman, its helped me to better understand what is real and whats not, I can better understand the way people feel and express themselves, its helped me to understand how important it is to be there for your kids if you have them one day, and most of all its helped me to appreciate family. There are friends that I have had in this business since 1997 and I consider them family. I dont judge people and I hope you dont judge me, try to get to know someone before you decide your final opinion of them and everyone Happy New Year, if you walking around life miserable then make some changes because its not the world that hates you, its you that hates the world! And Shout out to Sexy Jayden Jaymes. Love Ya!”
Donnie (I know you by your real name and prefer that, by the way!), thanks for doing that! My personal opinion – The industry’s going down the drain! I ran into Gia Paloma the other day and she straight asked me, “Do you think porn’s going to be around in 5 years?” We both gave each other the same look of confusion… “I doubt it… At least not like it is today… And definitely not like it was just 3 years ago when I first got in…”
Things are changing. 95% of the girls are escorts and making their money and shooting scenes because it’s extra money. What about someone like me? Or one of my best friends, Phoenix Marie? We don’t escort. We’re both considered solid performers, yet our schedules are wide open apart from a few scenes a month. And since we don’t escort, we don’t have additional income coming in. So what do we do? At what point do we get another job? At what point to you leave and hope the world can take you seriously as a working American while dealing with the wrath of ‘porn people’ looking down upon you for wanting to get another job because they see it as you thinking you’re better than them, when in fact we’re ALL struggling?!?!?! It’s a fucked up situation and it fucking sucks.
(Porn biz peeps – Contact me if you would like to submit a guest blog.)
January 15th, 2010 at 6:37 am
the most important thing in this world is relationship and the way we can kinda deal with this is by all of us collectively respecting and giving credit where it’s due with regard to each of our personal hustles by the peeps we share our world wit…..eeeerbady is gat to start givin a fuck for real…peace y’all
January 15th, 2010 at 7:09 am
Want to do a scene with me?
January 15th, 2010 at 7:23 am
I work @ a porn shop in phx, az & it started 2 slow down once Sherriff Joe started 2 harass all da mexicans & deporting them. He’s a fuking racist!!! They were about 90% of our clientele. We used 2 be open 24/7. Now, we have 2 close down 5 outta da 7 days cuz we got sooo slooow. We are barely making ends meet. This economy is kicking everybodys ass. I see it in da AVN magazine monthly. It keeps getting thinner & thinner every time. They’re used 2 be more releases every month. Before, directors like Jules Jordan & Justin Slayer had @ least 2 or 3 titles a month. & now, it’s lucky if even 1 comes out. I keep hearing people say dat da porn industry makes millions & da economy isn’t hurting them. I tell em wat I see & all they have 2 say is “Naw, They’ll be fine”. Wat gets me is dat people keep putting da adult industry down wen they’re probably worse than me & U put together. He in Phx, AZ, damn mayor keeps trying 2 shut us down 4 any lil reason. Between 2000 thru 2002, they blamed us 4 all da crime dat happened @ nite cuz we were open 24/7. Dat’s y we had 2 close down @ nite. Are U kidding me? Behind close doors, these officials & congressman are in swingers clubs with ball-gags & butt plugs in there asses while whipping some poor woman trying 2 make a living 2 support herself & her family. I’m da perverted 1? Really? U are using my tax dollars dat should be going 2 raise da wages of these poor teachers dat make less than da damn janitor & works @ da same school. U r using my tax dollars 2 buy escorts, drugs & gamble 4 ur devious & twisted pleasure. On money dat should go towards keeping these schools open & keeping da library open longer 4 people dat actually have jobs & can’t make it there on time because they have a 9 to 5 job they have 2 be @? Come on man. I’m da deviant? Really? Why do we even vote? Here in da state of AZ, dat stupid cardinals stadium was voted “NO” on & they still went ahead & built da DAMN thing. Da stupid light rail system was voted “NO” on guess wat? They still went on & built it 2 dat went 400 million over budget. Instead of finishing da freeways we need 2 get done. I wonder y da state of AZ in trouble. Just sayin. We r all suffering. I love Jayden…
January 15th, 2010 at 7:28 am
Very solid points and a very good question “What has porn done for you?” Me and my g/f watch porn together as I think more couple should watch it together. Just my opinion but I would think it makes for a healthier relationship. I know a few guys that tell my their girls get mad because they watch porn, what is the big deal? I hope the adult film industry does stay around. If that ends what with the Christians attack next? Video Games? lol
January 15th, 2010 at 7:32 am
Great post.
Though Im not in the adult industry I can relate to all that is being said since the music industry also suffered the same downfall.
Today due to the flood of availablity of MP3 (or any audio files ) online, musicians/artists see very little money from sales. Due to that most have to make money by vigorously touring where as before you’d sign a record deal and make bank. These days the artists get a small percentage of the $0.99 their music sells for on iTunes. Times have changed.
About the adult industry I too wondered how much longer it has on its life span due to the amount of videos that are available free online. I truly wonder how magazines stay in business but I know a lot of them are funded by companies paying for advertising in the magazines.
I live in Las Vegas and AVN is a HUGE draw here since people come from all over the world to attend. If AVN was to disappear that would mean there would be less people coming to Las Vegas during that weekend meaning less money made in the city. Our city is HIGHLY dependant on tourism so if AVN one day pulls the plug it affects Las Vegas aswell since the income reports for AVN weekend would no longer be the same.
There is much to wonder about the future. Great blog post and lets all hope for the best.
January 15th, 2010 at 10:30 am
I completely agree with you Jayden. But theres allways a struggle. Where ever you go. So you better fight it while you can and if lucky die a glourios death. That is what i want. Fight for the father land and die in war. So i can join the ancient soldiers in the hall of Valhall.
January 16th, 2010 at 12:10 pm
Hi Jayden,
This is really an interesting post, but is there really any difference between an escort and a performer, I really fell in love with you the first time I saw you. You are so beautiful and lovely. God you are just 23 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you, this money is not going to last forever. You gota look at the bigger picture, you are not alone in this journey.
January 20th, 2010 at 6:44 am
Let me just say that I came across your blog and (if it was a book) I couldn’t put it down. I usually don’t get into peoples personal life stories because I don’t find them interesting, but some of your adventures are funny. If the industry doesn’t get going again, you can do some writing, kept me entertained. Good little kick ass attitude behind the words and mood. New fan in AZ!
February 13th, 2010 at 8:57 am
Do appearance fees at clubs and shows at strip clubs pay so little that its not even worth mentioning?
March 13th, 2010 at 7:52 pm
aka Yuri Boroda or just “Yury Boy”…. Me and my paisano Michael Stefano were doing a DP scene with Czech slut Ellen Saint back in 2004 for what its worth. The DP with Keri Sable was fun too!!!!!!!!!!!